- Dog Misbehaving? Do This FIRST
If you tell someone you're having trouble with your computer, the first thing someone will ask you is "have you tried turning it off and on again?" This solves so many problems that it's a good first step before trouble shooting any computer difficulties.
Well, it's the same way with dogs. Any time you are struggling with your dog's behavior, we need to talk about the basic expectations we have to meet when we begin a relationship with a dog.
I want to talk about the biggest cause of problem behaviour and, of course, how to get the dog you dreamed of.
Provide these needs... or suffer the consequences!
A dog who is struggling to get their most basic needs met does not have the physical or emotional wherewithal to work with you in a cooperative fashion.
Either you are the person who provides all the things they need, which makes them want to do things for you in return, or you're the warden who's always trying to stop them from meeting their own needs, in which case your dog will be resentful and recalcitrant.
One of the wonderful things about dog training is that it taps into many of your dog's needs. It provides that mental and physical stimulation that so many pets are missing from their daily lives, and it gives them that time spent learning and playing with their favourite person.
Even better, most "tricks" that we can teach our dogs to perform also tap into some of their favourite dog behaviours, like retrieving, chasing, and tugging.
The more you focus on meeting your dog's needs in fun and creative ways, the more you and your dog will be able to achieve together.
This communication will strengthen your bond beyond belief. Talk to your dog about everything, and take them everywhere you can. Make sure your dog gets out there and runs and jumps and plays.
This is the first and most important remedy for every single problem anyone has ever had with a dog.
Your dog barks too much? Could be boredom. Could be anxiety. Could be over-excitement. Solution? Get them out to run and play more!
Your dog jumps on people? Get them out to run and play and when they're so exhausted that they can't possibly lift a paw, it's the perfect time to practice meeting people.
This doesn't mean that you need to run your dog for hours and hours each day (although you may, depending on the dog). Taking the dog for daily 10 km runs will just train a tireless athlete. But it means you should ensure that your dog is getting plenty of time to be a dog.
How much time does your dog need to spend playing bitey-face with other dogs, sniffing in the woods, and digging at the beach to be calm and happy? Well, that depends on your dog. But every dog needs at least some of that each day.
You can meet the need for mental challenges by playing games that challenge your dog's memory, problem-solving, and senses. You can meet the need for physical engagement with some strong rounds of tug and maybe a bit of doggy parkour at the park.
Until you have met your dog's needs, you have no reason to expect that your dog will be able or willing to meet yours.Before you even think of addressing the problem behaviour specifically, we need to be sure their needs have been met and they are set up to succeed.
That's always the first step, whatever comes after.